Selected essays and opinion writing Deadly silence: what happens when we don't believe womenThe Guardian Women Must Stop Playing By The Rules After Brett Kavanaugh's ConfirmationRefinery 29 No, #MeToo Is Not Ruining Valentine’s DayHuffington Post The Consent DebateThe New York Times Who Decides What Makes A Woman?Dame Magazine Here’s what’s missing in the Aziz Ansari conversation.Vox You Have the Right to Be Vanilla In BedGlamour How A Group Of Black Lawmakers In GA Fought For Your Abortion RightsRefinery 29 Building better men: how we can begin to redefine masculinityThe Guardian